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Wednesday, 16 November 2022

A decade (and two months) as a lolita

Recently, I realised that I've been a lolita for just over ten years! That realisation kind of blew my mind and I thought it'd make for an interesting YouTube video, so here it is!

I absolutely do not ahve the spoons to actually do a write up about this, so if you're interested in finding out about ym loltia journey please give it a watch.

Alternatively, everything I talk about there has been documented on this blog so if you feel like reading 10 years of posts that are mostly, but not entirely, about lolita well...good luck lol.

Friday, 11 November 2022

It's time to get retro (aka it's a bittersweet lolita cpasule wardrobe)

It's been a while, but I'm back on my bullshit with a bittersweet capsule wardrobe! I also posted a video about putting this together (and generally rambling about bittersweet as a valid lolita substyle) on my YouTube channel.

This capsule was a load of fun to put together, and I enjoyed balancing the edgy with the typically lolita. As with many styles, the true bittersweet nature would really come out in how you wear outfits from this capsule - scene hair and a studded wristband would really make anything look different that naturally styled hair and lolita wrist cuffs, for example.

However, certain items - notably the MCR band tee, the Skelepony bag, the Angelic Pretty cat ears (nyaa!), the AP sneakers and that AP pleather jacket - are not your typical lolita options.

I really love how this one turned out. I think it provides a huge range of options from bittersweet to regular sweet and everywhere in between.

Because I felt a little extra extra this time, I did six outfits with each main piece. And while some pieces - namely the pink x lavender and the grey x black JSKs - were a bit more limited on potential, I still think I got some not-too-repetitive outfits from them.

The Sugary Carnival OP was an absolute dream to coord with. It works with everything and you can do looks that are simple, looks that are typically lolita, looks that are more OTT and looks that stray away from conventional lolita ideals. Again, styling would make an even more noticeable difference but even in these simple layouts I think you can see the variety.

The Cotton Candy Shirring JSK is definitely the most out-of-place piece but as you can see, it does still work with black, though you do have to be more careful how you style it there. While obviously a main piece that featured black would have fit the wardrobe more easily, I think this JSK gives some much-needed lightness and stops it all from being too samey.

The Candy Treat Colorful Ribbon JSK, much like Sugary Carnival, works with everything almost too well. It honestly felt like cheating to put these looks together! And damn, working with it digitally really made me fall even more in love with this print...

The Present Ribbon JSK fulfills a complementary role to the Cotton Candy JSK. Being only black and grey, it provides a calm point in the wardrobe, but it can absolutely be sweetened up with some pink or lavender, and totally works as a bittersweet piece.

Though I just realised I didn't coord it with the Skelepony bag...whoops!

Lastly, the Candy Pop Skirt is another easy one. Personally, I am totally vibing with this skirt and the band tee combo, but I'm a lover of casual lolita so that's no surprise. While the shape of this is very typically lolita, the black and pink colour scheme, combined with the loudness of the polka dots, really makes it pretty in-your-face, and I like that.

It was really fun to make a capsule wardrobe again...and I already have a couple more in the works! Doing this one actually really got me back into the lolita groove, which made me really happy because (as you might have guessed by my lack of posting anything here) I haven't been feeling it much lately.

So yeah, that's that for now! Dropping a direct embed of the YouTube video just for the sake of it and singing off for now ^__^

Tuesday, 20 September 2022

What is casual lolita?

Casual lolita is a term that can spark debate online, because it is hard to draw the line between casual and just simple. For a fashion with such structured rules, there isn’t really an agreed upon definition of what a casual lolita outfit really is. Some things are obvious; a casual outfit can span any substyle, and by very definition it is a simpler kind of lolita. But other than that casual lolita is no longer a clear cut case of “it’s a skit and cutsew”.


Let’s look at the fashion as existing on a sliding scale from casual to over the top (OTT), where smack bang in the middle is a “traditional” lolita outfit. Traditional in this sense is something that fits the rules: a structured dress or skirt supported by a petticoat, with a blouse or bolero/cardigan covering the shoulders and upper arms at least, legwear, headwear, shoes, bag and generally one or two matching accessories or jewellery items. On one side of the scale, OTT is exactly what it says it is – exaggerated and excessive. There is more, and more uncommon, details and items going on in this kind of look – generally it is pretty easy to tell when a lolita coordinate is OTT!

However, the reasons for this post is that casual is a lot harder to necessarily spot and to wear. A dictionary definition of casual in the fashion sense is “clothes or shoes suitable for everyday wear rather than formal occasions” and sure, that is what casual is but it doesn’t really help pinpoint what, in lolita terms, makes something casual and not just a simple or basic coordinate. I don’t believe that a simple coord is the same as a casual one – to me, causal lolita is a distinct an aesthetic as OTT in its way.

So to help with defining, as much for my own benefit as for anyone who may read this, what aspects of an outfit contribute to make a coordinate casual lolita rather than just simply lolita I’ve broken an outfit down into individual components below. However, to once again refer to things as a bit of a sliding scale, not every aspect of an outfits needs to be casual in the sense I outline below but if enough of them are, the outfit overall could be counted as casual lolita. And it goes without saying that this is just my opinion based on my own observation and feelings regarding what makes casual lolita casual and not just simple. I’d be interested to know if you agree or not, so feel free to start a discussion in the comments!

Cut and print of main piece
The biggest piece of a lolita outfit is the dress or skirt so let’s go over this first. Generally, detailed and elegant prints don’t tend to read as casual (the exception being some sweet prints because the subject of the prints is so cutesy), nor do cuts which feature details such a lots of ruffles, bustles, overlays, princess sleeves and the like. Solid colours, simple prints and patterns, and straightforward cuts generally lend a more casual air to an outfit.

As a note, sometimes brands (mostly looking at you, Angelic Pretty!) do release miniskirts and salopettes as well. To my mind, even though they don’t conform to the typical lolita silhouette, if the rest of the outfit is distinctly lolita these can count for casual outfits. Otherwise, they just make super adorable casual (but not casual lolita) pieces.


Style and cut of top
What makes a top more casual? If it’s a blouse, a simple cut without a lot of lace, ruffles or other details like fancy sleeves is on the more casual side. If it’s a cutsew, it’s generally more casual immediately by virtue of being made of a knit material but still, there are fancy cutsews with delicate decoration and interesting details, and there are cutsews that are basically lolita t-shirts. Boleros, like cutsews, can range from OTT to casual and the things that make one more causal is limited lace and other decorations as well as the use of more relaxed fabrics like textured knits. Cardigans by default are quite casual, and things like jackets and coats have range much like boleros.

Overall, some cuts read as more casual than others – looser blouses, longer cardigans, plain sleeves, peter pan or low-cut collars, and sailor tops being some examples I can think of offhand. As I mentioned, there are even cutsews that are basically cute lolita t-shirts which are quite the epitome of a casual lolita top!


Volume of petticoat
This is a simple thing because as a general rule less petticoat = more casual. However, some petticoat is still needed in a vast majority of cases to keep an outfit in lolita territory, though the occasional outfit can pull off a completely deflated skirt and still capture the overall lolita aesthetic.

Style and amount of accessories
Like with a petticoat, the simple rule of thumb is less accessories (headwear and jewellery) = more casual. However, style also plays a role – accessories that are smaller or less detailed tend to fit better into a casual lolita aesthetic. I don’t think you can make a veil casual, but a beret or  flower clip or pair of little hair bows are certainly in casual territory. Likewise, no jewellery or simple jewellery is in keeping with the dictionary definition of casual being more for everyday looks. With lolita, you can’t really skip the headwear without looking a bit unfinished, but everything else as far as accessories go in a casual coordinate is fairly optional.

However, in an odd way, things like decora (is this style dead now? It feels pretty dead…) and by extension decora lolita come across as casual to me, despite being quite excessive. There’s just something so fun and free about the accessory overload of decora that is not put together in the same way a lolita outfit typically is. I think this may even be symptomatic of the fact that, to me at least, sweet lolita lends itself better to casual looks than classic or gothic. The overall cute vibe of sweet lends itself better to being toned down to the extent that an outfit is casual, not just simple.

Simplicity of shoes and legwear
Another outfit item you can’t really skip in lolita is legwear but fortunately legwear is a thing that isn’t ever too distinctly one style or another. Of course, solid coloured socks (or tights) and ankle socks are two distinctly casual options, but there is no reason that many printed or patterned tights or socks can’t be part of a casual outfit. Yes, there are some things that are a bit too elegant or fancy or detailed to really look casual but most regular patterned OTKS can be worn in casual, regular or OTT lolita coordinates without much trouble. Shoes are a bit more firmly stuck as to what level of dressed up they are, but generally for casual lolita flat shoes and chunky heeled shoes are suitable, while anything with a distinct heel is less so.



Hairstyle and makeup
In keep with the idea of casual being the “everyday” version, hairstyling and makeup are generally minimal for casual lolita. Makeup in particular and what counts as “everyday” varies depending on the person (for me it’s none at all!) but regarding hairstyles it generally means no to wigs and minimal styling of the natural hair. Some simple hairstyles are buns, braids and just wearing your hair loose.

More relaxed coordination
Now, this point is a little more conceptual than being an observation about clothing items, but to me a casual outfit also does not need to be quite so well matched as a typical lolita outfit is. For example, you can add a pop of unexpected colour or contrasting patterns in a casual look that makes it seem more everyday and less put together. Now, I’m not saying a casual outfit shouldn’t still be cohesive, but I feel like you have more leeway to focus less on proper coordination and can get away with things that are a bit unusual without having to visually justify them.


Incorporating atypical items
This point is basically a follow on from the previous comments about coordination, but casual lolita outfits are the perfect time to pull in non-lolita clothing items. To me, the most common choices here are shoes, jackets and shirts; bringing in sneakers or weird shoes, wearing a leather jacket or quirky coat, and though I haven’t seen it much how about a regular t-shirt? As long as most items fall fairly within lolita territory I feel casual coordinates can work in more unusual pieces with sacrificing the lolita look.

Potential rule breaking
And yet again a follow on in the same vein – casual lolita sometimes breaks the rules. Not too much, or it stops being lolita, but some examples here are not wearing a top with a JSK or skipping legwear or not wearing a petticoat at all. I feel like rule breaking is hard to do right in a lot of cases, because lolita does have a very distinct structure, but it can be done and done well in casual outfits.


So that’s my thoughts on the elements that draw the line between casual lolita and regular lolita, and it’s really not all that simple. There are a number of factors that go into making such a structured fashion look casual but still distinct and in a sense it all boils down to the vibe of an outfit…does it feel lolita as well as casual? Sister fashions to lolita such as otome kei also complicate the issue of casual lolita; generally the difference here is in overall aesthetic because lolita (even gothic) still tends to have a level of cuteness and softness to it, whereas I find otome has more grown-up quirkiness to it. I suppose lolita has an origin more from the seventies natural vibe, whereas otome to me draws more from sixties mod styling.

If you’ve read all the way through this giant post – what are your thoughts? Do you agree with my definitions of how different aspects can contribute to a casual lolita coordinate, or do you have a different perspective? Let me know!

Friday, 1 July 2022

Coordinates from March - June 2022

So, uh, yeah...2022 is apparently a quiet year on the lolita front. But it's been a great year for me on so many others, so I'm trying to make peace with the fact that right now, lolita is a lower priority hobby for me. I'm not leaving lolita or anything like that, but at the moment, my hobby spoons are going towards other things.

Also, April in particular was just ~fucked~ so that didn't help lol.

So my first coord in this posts comes from early May. I dressed up as I needed to run errands in my lunchbreak (this was my last week of full time working from home) and I wanted for film a YouTube video after work. It's a pretty simple coord, but I liked it and it felt very "me".


JSK: Metamorphose temps de fille Rose Stripe Shirring
Bolero: Maxicimam 
OTKS: Innocent World
Shoes: Bodyline
Hairclips: Offbrand

Also, I was very happy because James was super complimentary about this coord. Always nice to get husband compliments! He also said I should buy this bolero in other colours...

My next coord came the following week, worn just to WFH. I did end up running errands at lunch as well, but it was nice to dress up with the intention to just stay home. I also busted out some fawn fur, so all in all this coord felt very nostalgic.

Skirt: Metamorphose temps de fille Flower Bottle
Blouse: Glitter Tale
Haori: Vintage
OTKS: Metamorphose temps de fille 
Shoes: Bodyline 
Beret: Peacockalorum
Flower clip: Sweet Dreamer
Wristcuffs: Angelic Pretty

Next I wore - you guessed it - another coord to WFH in. This was the week where I transitioned from full-time WFH to a hybrid, and I was shocked by now much better I felt getting back into the office routine. So that inspired me to try harder when WFH, hence the coord. But it was a cold day, so I did get changed into something more comfy and cozy - though still not PJs! - before lunch ^__^


Skirt & Headbow: Handmade
OTKS: Metamorphose temps de fille
Shoes: Bodyline
Everything else: Offbrand

Aaaaaand that's it for this time period lol. Both my personal life and day job got absolutely insane from mid-May onwards...and look to continue that way until at least the end of July. But oh well, tis what tis and I hope you liked seeing these three coords ^__^


 

 






 

Tuesday, 3 May 2022

Floral headdress tutorial video

I promise I'm not dead, I just haven't felt like blogging.

But I have been keeping up with YouTube, and even though my channel is not just about lolita, I thought this particular video was absolutely worth sharing here ^__^


If you enjoyed the video please give it a like, and let me know if you actually try following this tutorial. it's actually my first tutorial so I'd be curious to know if it was informative enough to use as a reference.

Monday, 14 March 2022

In Praise of Lolibrary

I picked up a lavender headbow from Closet Child when I was in Japan - quite literally on my first day ever in the country. It was perfect - a nice light lavender with a simple gold pattern and a pearl-and-star decoration. Detailed but still neutral enough for my tastes.

The headbow in my first ever IRL Closet Child haul.

Recently, I was wondering what print series it's actually from. So, as any good lolita would, I opened up Lolibrary and set the following filters.

Category: Hair Accessories
Brand: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright
Colourway: Lavender
Tags: Stars

This search brought up a single page of results and there it was. It is the Full Of Stars “Bright Starry Night” Ribbon Head Bow from 2014 and I found it, thanks to Lolibrary, in under a minute. After almost three whole years of owning it ^__^


Armed with this new information, I decided to look into the full series (by keyword searching the name) since it was a print I hadn't heard of. Or at least, has never paid much attention to.

And oh my goodness, aren't the JSKs from this series just gorgeous?



I mean, I know they aren't really something I'd wear much, but they are definitely on my "if I see it cheap" list now. I am aware that I probably won't ever get my mitts on them with how little I'd want to spend, but a girl can still admire, even if it's from a wistful distance.

There's not much point to this blog post, other than to remind you all that Lolibrary is fantastic. And that there are more wonderful lolita clothes out there than you probably realise ^__^

Monday, 7 March 2022

3 Looks: Teddy Chocolatier

I honestly don't know where the time has gone. If you asked me when I did the last post in this series I would have thought it was a few weeks ago...not a few months!

But oh well. The time did pass but I am here now with three fresh coords with Meta's Teddy Chocolatier.

Teddy Chocolatier has really cemented itself as a favourite piece of mine. It's sweet but not too saccharine, detailed but not overwhelming. It's comfortable to wear and has a lot of coording opportunities. In short - I love it.

For my first coord I wanted to really emphasise the lavender in the print, and came up with a sweet country coord that I absolutely adore. I can't wait to wear this (or something very like this) in the near future.

Cutsew: Metamorphose temps de fille
Socks: Offbrand
Mint bow clip & lavender bracelet: Closet Child
Hats, shoes, wristcuffs & brown/ivory bow: Taobao

In the second coord I wanted to run fully into the chocolate theme. It would be more chocolate-y if I owned chocolate theme socks (that aren't those ankle socks from the previous coord) but I think it's still very on-theme. I also love how it's a much more muted coord despite the theme, and it feels like it would be amazingly cosy for colder weather.

Cardigan: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright
OTKS: Metamorphose temps de fille
Shoes: Bodyline
Bow clips: Taobao
Beret & bracelets: Offbrand

Finally, I wanted to run with a very mint coordinate, and it ended up being a very Angelic Pretty-heavy coord. And I'm not complaining about that! I think this coord is adorable, but I do feel like it's missing something...not sure what. Perhaps it's more of a styling thing, because in my head I can see this with a mid-2000s twintail hair style, and I think that would make all the difference. 

Bolero, headbow, OTKS & necklace: Angelic Pretty
Shoes: Bodyline
Mint bow clip: Closet Child
Small bow clips: Offbrand

All in all, I love all three coords I came up with. They are all very distinct from each other and don't reflect how I've worn the JSK so far. I mean, I've worn it with the mint bolero before in a kind of similar way but still. I consider these different enough that I am very, very happy.

Also - I did film my process of putting these coords together, so if you think that sounds interesting please watch below (and you know, please like and subscribe and all that jazz). ^__^



Tuesday, 1 March 2022

Coordinates from January - February 2022

I have one word for you - summer. Or perhaps two - ugh, summer.

I wanted to wear lolita over my Christmas break and when I started back at work (thanks to Omicron, still working from home) but the heat and humidity killed me. Fortunately, I got enough of a break in the weather to wear a coord at the end of my first work week back...a coord I'd had sitting out since the Monday, waiting to be worn but languishing due to the awful weather.

Skirt: Bodyline
Wristcuffs & Headbow: Angelic Pretty
Everything else: Offbrand/Taobao

I like that I started to year off with some sweet. This coord felt very cute, very me, and it made me happy to wear it.

And then it won't surprise anyone to hear that I didn't wear lolita for almost an entire month. In my defence, we had a lot of very hot and humid weather, and I was also quite sick (not the Rona, thank goodness) for about three weeks. So, you know.

So my next coord was for rather late in February, worn to work from home but primarily because we had tradies coming over to fix a broken step. People = wearing not-pyjamas so why not lolita?

JSK; Metamorphose temps de fille Teddy Chocolatier
Blouse: Glitter Tale
Headbow: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright
Necklace; Angelic pretty
Everything else: Offbrand/Taobao

However, it had a bonus side effect of actually making me really happy. Between the weather and the sick I'd been pretty down and feeling un-creative, and this coord really helped put me back into a better mindset.

PS How do you like my new hair? It probably won't be around for long because technically I can't have coloured hair for work, but while we're still WFH I figured why not just do it! I'll either cut it off or dye over it when I get back to the office.

Given how good that coord made me feel, I decided to continue it and wore lolita the next Monday. Nothing particularly exciting about this coord as it was honestly chosen for comfort and ease of wear, but nevertheless I enjoyed it. Shirring Princess is the best ^__^

JSK & Socks: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright
Wristcuffs: Handmade
Everything else: Offbrand/Taobao

The next day I defaulted to working in PJs, but on Wednesday I dressed up again. It really has been helping my mental state!

JSK: Metamorphose temps de fille Rose Stripe Shirring
Blouse: Glitter Tale
Socks & Headbow: Innocent World
Shoes: Bodyline
Wristcuffs: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright
Everything else: Offbrand/Taobao

This coord was entirely brought about because I wanted to wear classic, dammit. And it dawned on me, as I tried to put something together, that I don't actually have any properly classic main pieces that fit at the moment. Ever since I got rid of my handmade green skirt there's really only my Victorian Maiden skirt that's truly classic...and I don't really do classic in black! So this coord isn't as classic as it could be, but I still enjoyed it. And now I potentially have sewing plans...

And that was it for the first two months of 2022. As the weather gets more tolerable I do hope to wear lolita more frequently and I am getting a lot of joy out of it right now ^__^

Monday, 7 February 2022

Prints I would love to see

A topic that you see from time to time on lolita blogs is prints the writer would love to see done. It's something I rarely think about, but I'm feeling the urge to blog a bit more so why not give it a try myself? 

A camellia print that focuses on the flower, and that isn’t distinctly wa-lolita. I know Meta has included camellias in many of their wa-lolita series (including the one I own!) but honestly I would love to see Innocent World or BTSSB do this. My dad used to have beautiful Chinese watercolour style paintings of camellias in his house and I’d love to see something like that as a print. Not cartoony, simplified camellias but lovely delicate ones.

Sourced from the Victoria and Albert Museum website.

A watercolour style kitten print with relatively realistic kittens playing together. I love cats, but don’t tend to love to many cat prints – the cats often look cartoony or kind of uncanny, or it’s something that I like but wouldn’t wear. But something where the illustration is a bit Beatrix Potter is style would be gorgeous, perhaps in soft muted pastel colourways. This would totally be an Innocent World thing (I know they’ve done a print like this – Kitten Embroidery, I believe – but those kittens were a bit on the creepy side for me!) or I feel like it could be done really nicely by an indie brand.

Cute...but I want it less deranged looking.

A Celtic knotwork print, which I feel would be done best by Meta or Alice and the Pirates if it was done by one of the big brands because I wouldn’t want it done in a particularly gothic way (though if it was gothic, Atelier Pierrot might do a great job of it). Something classic, maybe with vines twining around the knotwork shapes, would be gorgeous, especially if it kept to earthier colourways and had a slight historical influence to the cuts as well. This could so easily be super tacky though, but I think if done well it would be stunning.

Doesn't have to be crosses, but I just liked this shot from Pixabay.

A Little House on the Prairie print is something else that I think would be really lovely. I would want this to be a print like how brands do classical painting prints – it wraps all the way around the skirt, or perhaps duplicated front and back. There would be the little wooden house in an endless field of grass and flowers, with three little girls playing nearby. The different colourways could be indicative of different times of day, kind of like BTSSB has done with some of their landscape style prints. I’d love to see Baby do this, actually, but only if they kept the cuts retrained and somewhat Victorian – the image would not suit an elegant frilly and lacy affair.

One of Garth Williams' gorgeous illustrations

A print of a landscape of autumn trees, particularly maple trees, or an all-over pattern of falling leaves. Totally a Meta thing, I think, but it would be gorgeous if Baby did this. I would so wear this, and love it forever. Autumn trees are just so gorgeous and the rich colours I think would really suit lolita quite well.

Okay, so you can't see it too well, but basically it's this kimono pattern that I want.

Overall, I think I’d just mostly love to see more plant, flower and landscape prints in a detailed and classic way. Even though I don’t garden much, I am a plant lover, and there’s just so much natural beauty all around that it would be great to see lolita brands branch out more in that direction.

Are there any particular things you’d like to see as a lolita print?

Monday, 31 January 2022

Not really a wardrobe post

Readers, I will be honest. I cannot be arsed doing a wardrobe post this year. In god news, that's mostly because there hasn't been much change - just a few arrivals and several departures. So I'm not missing out by not doing one ^__^

However, I thought it would be nice to do a little review of those changes in a wardrobe post of sorts.

New Arrivals

My most notable addition in 2021 was Meta's Camellia ~ at hide and seek~ which I absolutely adore. I've already worn it twice, and it's such a gorgeous piece that even my minimal-effort outfits look good.

I also posted a YouTube video unboxing this, so have a watch below if that's your thing ^__^

2021 also saw me finally acquire some blouses that fit from Glitter Tale, yay! I've worn the white one a lot, but the others...not so much. Oh well. It's still nice to have some comfortably fitting blouses even though I'm kind of "meh" on Glitter Tale.

Lastly, my black tea parties died and I bought a similar pair from Aliexpress. Not very exciting, but there you go.

Oh, and I nabbed a couple of classic-suitable necklaces from our model wardrobe. There are probably a few other bibs and bobs I'm forgetting but that's most of it! 

Fond Farewells

As I said at the start, last year saw a fair few departures. I did another wardrobe purge, and finally parted ways with things that don't feel "me" and things that will take a lot of weight loss to fit into. Again, I have a video on this on YouTube, embedded here for your viewing pleasure. Though be warned...it is long, rambly, and includes as much cosplay stuff as lolita stuff.

Another item I let go later on in the year was Bodyline L003 and a couple of pairs of socks. A friend James and I reconnected with expressed an interest in lolita and a lack of funds to get into it. We decided she and James would do a photoshoot where I dressed her in lolita.

When I was coming up with a coord for her, as she is significantly smaller than I am, I decided to just give her an Innocent World blouse and bolero from the aforementioned purge, as I'd listed them to Lacemarket and they weren't selling. Then I thought "those will goes very nicely with that Bodyline floral" and realised that the JSK would suit her colouring far better than mine, so she might as well have that to keep as well, since then she has the big parts of a coord. Eventually I'll learn not to buy beige or tan based things...

Then for that outfit I put her in some pretty Meta OTKS that I've never worn due to size, and when I saw that the pattern was a little stretched out even on her very slim legs I was like "fuck it, these are never going to work on me no matter now much weight I lose" (hearty Scandinavian types, you feel me?) so I gave her that pair, and the second pair of the same socks in a different colour that I own.

Though, to be fair, they look kind of wonky even on this mannequin leg!

And sadly, last year my gorgeous fawn fur handbag fell apart at the seams after years of near-constant use... genuinely, I was very sad about this, and still kind of am. It was a great conversation starter!

In Summary

Overall, more went out than came in to my lolita wardrobe, but those changes were all for the better. The make my wardrobe better more wearable for me... and I've freed up some space for more new additions ^__^

I mean, I'm actually really enjoying not buying very much in terms of lolita. Being more mindful, for lack of a better term, about my wardrobe has been good for me. I've also started sewing more again (I have a cutsew and a skirt in the works at the moment), and would love for my wardrobe to expand mostly with handmade or indie brand pieces. However, I'm not making any particular goals in that regard - I'll add what I like, when I like ^__^ 

Tuesday, 25 January 2022

Coordinates to try in 2022

Recently(ish) I posted to reflect on my coordinate goals from 2021. Even though I did forget that I'd set those goals for the majority of the year, I still liked having them. So I thought I'd do it again for 2022!

This list consists of some things that are carried over from last year, and some things that are wholly new.

Try OTT classic
I have sort of done OTT-ish classic before. A more opulent classic look is my go-to "proper lolita" style. But it's been a while and I want to see what 2022 Roli can do ^__^

A couple of my fancier classic coords.

Pair an OP with a blouse
Exactly what it says on the box. When I put together flatlays, I often pair short sleeve onepiece dresses with a blouse underneath, and I really like it. But I've never done it in real life and I think that needs to change!

Keen to wear this exact combo one day!

Make a "typical" sweet coord
I want to do a cute, pastel, fluffy kind of sweet lolita coord because I've never really done that before, and I want to! I'm thinking a bit like Princess Peachie in her heyday, or Rosalynn from Lolita Wonderland. Not exactly OTT by today's standards, but very, very sweet. Honestly, I think they thing that stops my more typically sweet coords from quite reaching this vibe is largely a matter of hair and make-up (and accessorising) so this may end up being a photoshoot look.

Wear my non-fawn fur
This is carried over from last year, because I totally failed at doing it at all ^__^

I mean, that's because it's mostly fawn fur...but still!

Coord a corset
Another 2021 goal, but this time I'm better prepared. Last year, I forgot that my only lolita-suitable corset does not match any of my currently-fitting clothes. This year, I'm either going to delve into ero with another corset, or (more likely) make myself a gobelin waist cincher, because I want one anyway. 

At least one kimono coord
Honestly, this is just a slight tweak on last year's "wear more wa lolita" but I wanted to be more specific about what I wanted - to wear a kimono in place of a blouse, with or without an obi. I may also be modifying some kimonos into lolita clothing, but as with all sewing plans I have, let's not hold our breath on that.

My favourite kimono coordinate so far.

Wear my bonnet
My last goal is also a repeat - I want to wear my lovely old-school bonnet! Probably for a photoshoot, as it's not really my everyday vibe, or maybe I'll organise an old-school meet up when it feels safe. Going to try really hard to make this one happen!

And that's it! That's the lolita coords I want to try and make happen in 2022. Do you have any "goal" coords?

Tuesday, 18 January 2022

2021 Coords in Review

2021 saw me wearing lolita 27 times (this number does not include the times where I just dressed from the waist-up to film a YouTube video). So a bit over twice a month on average. After my 2020 bonanza it feels like a bit of a poor showing, but given that 2021 was a year in many, many ways (most of which I haven't talked about on this blog) I'm still quite pleased with myself. 

Some of my favourite coords of the year.

So, total numbers aside, how did things look compared to 2020?


I'll admit I'm a little surprised to see that sweet dominated quite this much, but I suppose that's also because a bunch of my outfits toe the sweet-classic line. 


For example, in the four outfits above I classified two as sweet and two as classic...but they're all very similar. I guess it's just that simple sweet (which sometimes tends to read a bit classic by virtue of simplicity) is my vibe. So when I see a graph saying I wore lots of sweet part of me goes "but there are no pastels, no stuffed toys, no giant twin tails" and kind of forgets that my style of sweet exists.


Interestingly, the graph of main piece colours is pretty darn similar to last year. Or, I suppose it's not that interesting. I fit the same pieces as in 2020, and even though I got rid of my handmade green skirt I bought Meta's Camellia Cat so I still had the same amount of green main pieces!

In 2021 I did not have a stand-out most popular main piece. Everything that fits was worn at least once, and I had three tied "favourites" at three wears apiece - Teddy Chocolatier, Shirring Princess, and my handmade cherry skirt. I am not surprised by any of that. ^__^


And last of all...my reasons for wearing lolita. Nothing too surprising here either, really. I feel like I wore lolita a lot for comfort reasons. As in, I had to wear proper clothes for whatever reason, and lolita was more comfortable for me than normie clothes. I know I say this every year, but I really am trying to finally drop some weight, so it'll be interesting to see if I find lolita more or less comfortable as more of my clothes - lolita and not - start to fit better...or fit at all.

Overall there's nothing particularly unusual in the data from 2021. However, I still like posting these reviews to see what I was up to and now that this is done... on to 2022!

Saturday, 1 January 2022

Coordinates from December 2021

Farewell 2021! You were fine, I guess. Tumultuous. Weird. But you definitely had upsides too.  

But we're not here for reflective musings, we're here for coords!

First coord of the month was worn to my work Christmas party - it's tradition, dammit. This year, we were asked to dress in Aussie colours or themes so I wore my red dress with some blue and white since the Aussie flag is red/white/blue (like lots of countries, so boring lol).

OP: Baby, the Stars Shine Bright Tartan Check
Socks: Angelic Pretty
Shoes: Bodyline
Everything else: Offbrand

I genuinely loved this look, it was not something I'd have just come up with on my own without trying to match the colour scheme but I am really happy with how it turned out. 

I next wore lolita on a WFH day because James had a photoshoot, so I couldn't stay in my PJs with a model in the house! I hadn't planned on doing lolita, but I was having trouble finding a pair of comfortable pants and realised that I'd be more comfy in lolita than my jeans!

OP: Metamorphose temps de fille Camellia Cat
Socks & Shoes: Bodyline
Everything else: Offbrand/Taobao

It was a cute coord and I was happy to wear it, unplanned as it was.

Then my next coord was once again, quite unplanned. We were visiting a friend who's back in the country for a few months (and getting to meet her cute baby girl!) and I could not find my comfy pants, so again, went with a quick lolita coord. The base of this is a combo I wore in November but like, who cares, lol.

Skirt: Handmade
Everything else: Offbrand

You could also argue this isn't really lolita, but as usual - my blog, my rules, and I say it's lolita enough.

And that was my December in lolita fashion...unexpectedly more fashionable that I would have thought. As usual I'll be posting a bit of a "year in review" post shortly, so look forward to that!